No actually didn't do them before. I would tell her it felt like I was being taken advantage of and would often say, you are perfectly capable of doing these things youself so you do them.
So now my 180 is to do them, right or wrong to now do them.
She even said to me the other day that it's weird for her now because before I would say no. She said she also doesn't want to take advantage of how I am being nice about doing stuff now.
