After reading Bagheera's recent thread, I wanted to post something in response to this:
"They could probably point out who is wearing tight briefs or loose boxers, and even identify what the man's preferred penis 'resting position' is (to the left, right, or straight down). Again, this is all very subtle, secretive, and more 'background' observation than all the other things that are foremost in her mind. However, most women would never admit to 'penis watching,' so don't bother asking her."
I have to admit, this part just isn't me. I don't apparently fall in the high part of the bell curve on this. In fact, bottom line is this: I've never ever been in love with a penis before my current relationship. Never looked at them, never really wanted to, wasn't turned on by the sight of them, whether hard or soft. I WAS turned on by the thought of how it would feel to get ravaged and roughly taken, and part of that thought is imagining the feel of intercourse and penetration. But as for the sight of them, nah, never was into it.
But...my disclaimer here is, I'm kinda gay.
I am just now realizing that I was mostly gay sexually for most of my earlier life, yet I was mostly straight emotionally. I *wanted* to be straight sexually, but I've since realized that only a certain type of man can make me feel sexually straight - and in my actual experience, that has been only one man, my current partner.
Therefore, his is the only penis I have ever lusted after, looked at, admired, or worshipped....or even noticed for that matter! It is a great feeling, and I wish I had found this feeling within myself earlier. But it was worth the wait. In our case, my man gets the added benefit of me having NEVER worshipped a penis before, so he knows I belong all to him in that way. He has literally had zero competition in my past. And even though he is sometime insecure about my bi-sexuality, it also gives him reassurance to know I'm never going to be the girl who is chasing down some strange peen. This gives him comfort on a lot of levels and takes away any anxiety he may have had with regard to his own peen. (Although he is generally very self-assured anyway...so he didn't need much help to be fully self-assured about this).
As for the other things B had said on his recent thread, I totally agree that feeling his erection in the morning really makes me feel frisky and I love it! I do get that the erection isn't "for me", but after I start loving on it for a little while, sometimes it IS for me. Other times we just love to play games...like making a tent! LOL!
I truly am fascinated by his now, as B also said. The changes in size, shape, color, the way it works...all very fascinating as I've never gotten to know one initmately before now.
I would be interested in hearing from other gals about this...do you penis watch? Do you notice the package of strange men in a room full of men? Like B said, maybe you will not even admit this, even if asked by a friend....I'm just curious. (IE: I'm actually the one who is cataloging the boobs in the room, not the peens, so its hard for me to know what other women do).
