Glad you explained things. But if he makes more than 5 times more, how the heck is he getting off so lightly? Is he? I mean, do we know what's going on there?
Bankruptcy is definitely for times like these...yes, it would totally suck. But what sucks more MAY be the alternative. You should not be weighed down by HIS frickin' choices forever. When I said "better off divorced" I meant financially speaking. I still have to say, if a guy making 5 times more than you isn't paying for anything....yes, financially speaking that IS a factor. It affects whether you can EAT...
Is there any way you can get back to where you were before?
Guess what I'm asking is what would it take for you to be able to make it on your own, either where you are now, or where you were before? Is there a location that is better suited to what you do? My inlaws are ranchers so I understand SOME of what you need/want, but not all. They have side businesses that I THINK are really where they end up making the money and they just love the ranching lifestyle. But it's hard physically, as you know. What are your options, assuming for the sake of argument, that h is not around?
Anyhow, good luck, and sending prayers your way...
( j )
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
