What's the "Food for thought"? If you need to make the changes so you are the best man you can be, make them. That part of the equation is simple. It's not all about her. Remember?
It's about you, and working on YOU...cuz you are the only one in this sitch that you have any control over. Yes her history is weird; which you knew when you married her. Soooo....stay focussed....and back to YOU...
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016