Peace, So sorry to hear that the D is final. Sounds like your H is a totally different man from the one you married. People really do change. Hopefully, this isn't the last change he'll make in his life and he will turn his life around to become someone you and your kids can respect again, even if it isn't as your husband. Be there for your kids and as difficult as it is, try to keep them out of the drama of it all as much as possible. When you can bring yourself to do it, please try to work on forgiving your H. Not for H's sake, but for YOU. Let go of H and all of the bitterness and resentment that you feel so you can live your life again. (((Hugs)))
