Hey BobbiJo, I picked up that book a couple of days ago after Kalni recommended it. I haven't yet read it because I've been really busy this week but glanced through it and realize I do a lot of the things mentioned that may upset H.
Glad you're having a good week. You sound more relaxed.
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