thanks Amy and root, Keep it coming, i just can't get ecough good insight and sound advice.

Any female input and outlook in my sitch is greatly appreciated as well.

So yesterday when the wife got home from work she vented about work drama with me for quite a while. I just listened and essentially said that's a lot to deal with.

Overall when we talk just about everyday stuff and the kids we get along and things are smooth. This just confuses me though because she sees the changes in me, we get along and yet she says she just doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore.

It's killin me!

Later in the evening we get the kids to bed and we watched Lost together. Then went to bed, where she has been using a big pillow to separate us. You see i am 6ft. 5in. and we have a california king bed. So I think she would just rather kick me out of the bed but she knows how much I love our temperpedic so she just separates us. Also very sucky and hard to deal with!


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