So, I'm glad you "stopped by", AJ. I'm just not sure what I should be looking for when H and I do interact now. Any ideas-- what are the sign, good or bad that I need to keep my eyes open for?
Good question. What you're trying to do is this: detach. Get off the crazy train. Get a life. You're not trying to control him. You're trying to control you. Slowing things down (you can't go completely dark because of son, right?) allows you both time to figure some things out and work on your individual selves.
Is it driving him crazy? You bet it is. He's having to figure out what changed. Why it changed. I'm guessing he got a scare.
Be careful of the flirting and getting numbers. You're not trying to date or make him insanely jealous or worse, give him the idea its ok to flirt. Getting even is not the way to go either.
But good on you for somebody at least making you feel good, right?
Remember this is a long term journey. Not a sprint. There will be some more tough times. Don't get discouraged although that will be easy to do. Live in the moment as much as you can when it comes to H.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
