Cheers for that. I have to say that your view is echoed 30 times over by my friends and family. ... but saying that, it is still hard to take in. I am naturally an understanding and caring person, and want to do the best for people. If someone is that 'angry' I want to know why... and three months on, there is all still this irrational anger and coldness from her. The person I knew for a year was far far from that. She was just so kind and simply happy. Everyone seem to be screaming at me "Anger issues"... she's got them, and I should run for the hills, but it's in me to help her some how and don't want to give up on her...
But (over the last 3 months) I have been accused of some pretty crazy & truly ridicules stuff, all of it well & truly out there (I mean seriously crazy stuff). I have been unfairly slagged off over the internet (on her FB page) for the public to see (and they have, like my friends and family). I have been truly insulted in my own home, on several occasions, even on Christmas. I've been disrespected, misaligned and insulted in just about every way possible, publicly and privately. I've had my personality, integrity and even my professionalism called into question. All of it negative and all pretty nasty stuff ... just so out of character.
I guess, because I've never had to deal with anything like it before from anyone... I guess I am just at a loss for what to do. I do truly love the woman (or that is, the woman I thought I knew for a year) and find it hard to take in that walking away is the right & only thing to do. I guess that's why I am here at DB looking for answers.
