Thanks Carlos.

I can see my W second guessing the separation and/or potential divorce, but at the same time keeps moving forward with separating our finances. It seems like part of her confusion is not really about me, rather the fear of going alone and starting over. It seems like it's a race for me to prove that I am better than starting completely over again.

I'll check out 'Refusetolose'.

H40 (me)
W34 (WAW)
S6
T11
M10

Feb09: Need a break bomb
Mar09: I moved to apartment to GAL, PMA, NMMNG
Apr09: WAW 'dating' OM at work, positive around me lately.

My Sitch