Yes W is still in contact with OM but mostly on a verbal basis and the internet. I do not believe there has been much in person contact between them, however I stopped snooping a long time ago. It took too much energy and emotion out of me and besides I had found out everything I needed to know.

I chose not to contact OM's W because evidently he has decided to stay with her and if they are attempting to work things out, then I didn't want to add to her troubles. Plus, contacting her would have not helped my situation at all, not that it is in good shape now anyways.

I still am in limbo but feel it really will not be that way much longer. We will see. Thanks for posting to my thread.

S4H