I was supposed to get divorced tomorrow...!

[MrNiceGuy]

Thanks again, Dave.

I can see her second guessing the separation and/or potential divorce, but at the same time keeps moving forward with separating our finances. It seems like part of her confusion is not really about me, rather the fear of going alone and starting over. It seems like it's a race for me to prove that I am better than starting completely over again.

I, too, keep hearing "believe none of what she says", but am having trouble understanding if that is related to positive or negative comments --- or telling the truth for that matter.

To keep it with me at all times, I have now noted the following items into my iPhone so that it is easily accessible:
1. Keep cool & hang in there.
2. Better yourself.
3. Learn from your backslides (which there have been)
4. Believe nothing said.
5. Focus on the small gains.
6. Practice, Practice, Practive DB'ing.

Thanks again.