"You really are doing a great job. I think you are making the decision to leave a very stupid one." Not you Silly! You are making her decision to leave a very stupid one, meaning, you are giving her no reason to leave. As a matter of fact, you are giving her very good reasons to stay. I just think of all us newbies, you might be doing the best in terms of control and really getting the DBing down. I hope he misses me and us as a family. I am feeling re-engergized......good word. I think the little party is going to be a lot of fun for all of you. If she brings up relationship talks for some reason, what are youg going to say to deflect it?
