WAH#3

[Startingover2]

I just read through your summary of your sich and noticed your condition was a sober H. Ok, he is sober now and hope will stay that way but time will tell. He is pestering you to make a decision when you can't yet until he proves he will stay sober. Why don't you tell him not to ask or talk about that until its been at least the 6 month mark of sobriety?