Saffie/Puppy,

feeling a bit down after last night. I have spoken to my lawyer earlier, and she said the document I signed has no legal standing in court and is a document that confirms the childrens residence and who is the main 'keeper' of the children. The 'reasons' stated on the petition have no bearing on things either as unless it is physical abuse, or mental abuse witnessed, these cannot be proved in a court of law. As you have all said, the lawyer said under no circumstances sign anything else without professional review first.

Puppy,

Up to last night I have been desperate to try and keep my wife on my side of the fence so that we can try to work together and also a recocilliation further down the line. I think I now have to put her out of the equation and concertrate on the children and me. As has been said on previous threads I cannot keep trying to appease her because she knows which of my strings to pull.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years