Mark,

Puppy is right to highlight this again. To me it is the first move.....you can work on the respect and DB or whatever later.

Get to a L in order to.....

1) Get the papers looked over and see if you need to try and revoke your signature.

2) Get very clear advice on what leaving the house may do to your situation.

3) Find out about mediation.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength