Thanks for your responses. You all have the same answer about the solicitor, and in hindsight I should not have signed them.
So what are you going to DO about this? Are you going to follow the advice, and see if you can get your signature rescinded due to emotional duress?
To me, EVERYTHING ELSE takes a back seat to the legal issue right now. You were a fool to sign those ("they 'just' pertain to the kids"???? What is "just" about her and your children??), and you need to have a solicitor take a look at what you just signed, and advise you.
Mark, you say you're HEARING the advice you're getting, but I don't see you APPLYING any of it. You've got some great and wise counsel on your thread since yesterday, but I don't see you really listening.