This is so nuts! If he still loves me, why won't he work to win me back?
Because he is in his own little world, which is a very confusing and distorted on. You are expecting too much from him right now.
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He even still says ILY sometimes. Is he bipolar? LOL I'm thinking this is so crazy. Why are we doing this? Yet, he won't do the work it takes to fix the R.
Many of them do resemble someone who is bipolar. He can't hardly deal with himself right now. You can't expect too much in the way of R work. That's what he is running away from right?
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I don't think the OW is really a factor. The one time I brought it up he said he hasn't even slept with her. Not that I believe that, but I don't think she is important to him.
Don't bring her up anymore, you will just push him further away. The OW is like a drug, escape or band aid if you will. He is using her so he doesn't have to deal with his issues.
Read the mlc resources to give you a better unerstanding of what is going on.
