Your H is confused
Is he willing to go to Therapy?

a lot of them wont admit anything about ow
mine lied for 2 years..not sure why
I believe they are usually in some kind of crises or somehow attached to OW
keep taking xare of yourself ,and for now lay the foundation for a friendship
peace

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow