A long distance marriage is always difficult, but trying to fix a marriage while so far apart is also difficult. I haven't read any of your past threads so my questions may seem silly: 1. Seemed like you were married such a short time, how long did you know each other before you got married? Did you try any counseling before he left? 2. Do you think the orders to Iraq made a difference? (divorce papers right before he left)
Have to run now, but hope others will give you some good advice.