Thanks for your responses. You all have the same answer about the solicitor, and in hindsight I should not have signed them. I just wanted to take the argument away from the children. Kev, it does smack of desperation but I wish I could understand why there is such a hurry? It certainly is hurtful as she clearly does not give a damn about me now.
Is 'detaching' completely letting her live her own life and only talk with her in regard to the children. As I was saying yesterday, this could be construed as 'more of the same' as communication has been one of our problems. I was definately trying to do a 180 on this one, but should I be DR'ing at all expect for the GAL as nothing is working.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
