Hi DQ, Could you check out my thread? I have a WAH and I have been doing things differently (for the good) and he says he is happy to see my changes and also is sad that i wasn't behaving that way when we were together. Anyway, he sees the changes in me- comments all of the time about them. He is still attracted to me (this is totally not an issue) and even wants me to "do or send things" to him (even though he is with OW). what do you think I should do give your experience. It seems like you're coming at this at a slightly different angle.... Right now nothing has changed in our sitch in about 10 months. We're in contact (good conversations), but haven't really moved in either direction to reconcile or be done for good. thanks!
