Getting late, but just got finished reading your developments! I have to say ONE word: UNBELIEVABLE!! The stubbornness is UNBELIEVABLE!! Your kids ask her to come and all they get is a "No thanks".... If an impending D doesn't shake her up, what will??
Glad to hear you are in a good mindset under all of this tho!! I'm sure everybody here will be checking in on Friday for sure!