I don't know that she's reaching out to me. She's trying to absolve herself of guilt. If she tells me that I can stay (even after the divorce) then it's on me if I leave. However, she cannot possibly believe that I would stay after this divorce is finalized.
By the way, I spoke to her lawyer. I was not served. These are papers that I can sign (should I agree to them) to push the divorce through without need of a lawyer or being served. I need to have the papers signed and back to her lawyer by April 30th if I want to go that route. For the most part, she's being fair in the papers, however I am not going to sign them. She can serve me in May.
I came home tonight and she was a bit snippy so I just left her upstairs. I came down here and am typing this up as we speak. I guess tomorrow I need to find a lawyer, though I really don't want to. Not only is it going to cost money that I don't have, but lawyers will usually push for divorce. It's how they make money.
I know that isn't over, but I really don't see it ending nicely. If she was truly having second thoughts she would have stopped this here and now. I just don't know what to do.
