Oh, I meant to tell the wierd part. H is so all over the place. We decided to eat when he got to my place, so I went in the bathroom to get ready. He went in my kitchen and started doing dishes. I then walked out when I was ready and thanked him for doing dishes. He leaned down like he was going to kiss me, then quickly stood back up and said sorry in an awkward way.

This is so nuts! If he still loves me, why won't he work to win me back? He even still says ILY sometimes. Is he bipolar? LOL I'm thinking this is so crazy. Why are we doing this? Yet, he won't do the work it takes to fix the R. I don't think the OW is really a factor. The one time I brought it up he said he hasn't even slept with her. Not that I believe that, but I don't think she is important to him.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

me 33, s 9, d 4