Peace, It seems to be a common thread that they are totally oblivious to the effect that their actions have on anybody else, even the kids. This is what infuriated me about H. It visibly bothered my d3 when H took her to the park with the OW. When she told me she had a confused, pained look on her face. However, H denies that he hurt our d in any way. They are only focused on one thing, themselves.
I'm sorry for your pain, and that so many H seem to be able to easily shut out the feelings of their kids and people they were married to for so long. It sucks. You did the right thing talking things out with your d. You are the brave one, to face the hurt and meet it head on. Cowards run and sweep it under the rug. Good night. M
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