told my D 13 , dad and I are divorced she cried..she called H..he made light of it he is insensitive and lives in denial we D 13 and I talked a long time
it espescially hurts as he seems pleased with the whole D he doesnt think he did anything wrong he doesnt think me or the kids hurt from his choice and if we do its not his problem
H came I sai a few things I probably shouldnt about his insentivity to D 13 and how he lives in denial and avoids any conflict and that s7 calls and H needs to answer phone
he said I dont want to fight ofcourse not! i left and when i returen, he said he knew of this kids therapy for D I told him great idea,,he can take the kids! next visit--I will avoid himn totally there wont be a friendship for today
I still am stuggling with forgiveness I am angry at H I am angry at ow not sure what I need to do to get to other side
I need to continue no contact i dont /cant be friends with H right now peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
