I don't post much, Mach, Jack and Trapt can tell you that.
What I will tell you is this. Right now, NOTHING you will do is right. So don't beat yourself up. Eventually, when her anger dies down, you will start to see some changes.
Two quotes I want to give you, one from Jack, one from Mach. Jack once posted its not a matter of whether or not you can save your marriage, its whether or not you want to, or something to that effect. It will be on how you handle this.
Mach frequently states that you will not see the effects of what you do today, on this date. It will come in the future.
Read everything you can man. And don't overthink.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..