Goal is to do things for me and the kids. I have no intention of trying to reconsile. He doesnt want it. Period.
In my heart, I still feel he is sick and if he could have given up the affair and focused on us it would work. I love him that much.
Thanks for listening, Sandy
That sounds good. I agree it is a sickness. The good thing is you don't have to decide now about the future. I do think in your case it sounds good that at some point your H will stop waiting around for the OW. It doesn't sound like a true love R or anything, not them any of them really sound like that, but yknwim.
But if you focus on your children and you, then you can always figure that stuff out later. Karen
