Granted, I take responsibility for allowing it to happen, even though there were red flags.
Well of course you would, you take responsibility that isn't yours. : )
OK, this was really funny. True, but funny all the same.
And now this is where I really show my uh, stupidity for lack of a better word... (I hear my son in my head saying "Noob") ("Newbie" for those who are not gamers or do not have teenagers)
How in the world do I keep those boundaries and still have some kind of contact now? I mean, i do believe I screwed myself out of it. Which, I don't know is such a bad thing, since if nothing else this is a big 180 for me. I have never been able to stand silence (duh, obviously), so I would have backtracked by now. Or put out some kind of olive branch. Then things would resume to "normal" and we would go back to ignoring the big elephant in the room.
OK, I am wondering... Did I really overthink this that much? Fact- he admitted to a "date" on Saturday (yet still said we'd do something when he got back from his trip). Fact- he said he got a ride to the airport. Since he offered no name, I assumed it was from the same person, which immediately made me think that the date was more than a date...it was more of a relationship. Believe me, my crazymaking mind had her sleeping over and staying all day until she had to drive him to the airport at about 3 or so. Still odd to me that he texted me (according to the time the text came in) pretty much right after he got checked in.
I don't really think I made too much of this. Yeah, I supplied some details...but, even in its most innocent form this is NOT GOOD.
I guess I just wait and see what he does? Or doesn't do?
