I don't want to file just yet as one thing that W ran away from was our financial position. I am currently being made bankrupt and W will have to shoulder half the joint debt when it happens. I am not vindictive, and have offered to take on all debt prior to bankruptcy but she cut off communication. The ball was in her court and she never hit it back.
If things remain as they are, she will be chased for the debt and that will be her making, not mine and I don't feel like making things any easier for her. Once that is sorted, I will file as soon as I can. If that wasn't going on, I would have filed a few weeks ago as I want an end to it all.
Thanks for your concern, but I am better protected as I am at the moment.
