Thank you all so much!! I do believe it is all coming to a head!! I don't think she will like KY, that town anyway b/c it is not very big, it's a college town but it's still a lot of farmers, not the city life she is used to. I can't figure out why they are going there & not with her family. Maybe there is a reason there!

He was always good to me & waited on me hand & foot when I was sick or had minor surgery but not for a headache, especially in the middle of the night. He is a sound sleeper & I hardly ever woke him up. His SIL said no man will put up with what she saw for very long.

I'm having a hard time finding a job, I know he will!!! What happens when the money runs out???

My SIL said they were sick a lot in Laos, food poisoning, stomach stuff. But she did say it was like being in a 3rd world country & anti american. She said no one spoke english & there were about 5 other languages.

It seems to me like the book I read, "Men in MLC" is all coming true. They keep looking for happiness & can't find it! They change everything & then they realize it's within them.

My SIL said she had a feeling when they got back that they will have both aged a lot!