Glam,
There's nothing you can do for him. He's got to work through this on his own. You cannot rescue him this time. All you can do is listen, validate and be there as a friend. He knows that you are there for him and he's looking to you to be his lighthouse in his storm. Glam....patience, compassion, friendship and validation are the keys that you can provide. Keep your expectations at zero...he is fragile.

Take care. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.