No I don't. If I was feeling more positive about my M, I probably would, but unfortunately that's not the case. I have a H who just happens to be a roommate. It would be great if that could change, but as long as he continues to think that he doesn't need any help, or that we do, I am not too optimistic. But I tell myself that it could always be worse. It's not good right now, but it definitely could be a lot worse.
Like your H, my H will say all the right things, yet he will do the wrong ones. My H will also say the wrong things and try to fix it later by doing the right things. So while some things are right in the R, there are always some things that are wrong. I said before that I wanted consistency, and there I have it.
Stay strong, QT, and no matter what anyone says to you, including your H, never doubt yourself. Make the decisions that only you know are right for you and your lovely little angel. It's said all the time, but that's because it's so true. Your well-being matters most.
(((((QT)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
