Well, today I went out and got the mail and there was a nice big envelope in there for me. It had the terms for the dissolution of marriage. There was one for my wife too. I had to go pick something up so I left and took my wife's copy with me. I called her and told her that I had it and she met me out there and took her copy. When I came back out she was still there and asked me if I wanted to talk to her about it. I told her no and left.
She sent me a text message saying that she knew I was upset but she would hope that I would stay until court date for the kids sake since they would be out of school then. She also said that I am more than welcome to stay at the house after the divorce until we sold it. That she wasn't kicking me out.
I responded saying that I was very upset right now and that I know myself well enough to know that nothing I say right now will be good. I told her that I would be home later but I didn't want to talk about it today. I don't even want it brought up.
