Oh and I would just take back the DB book. It's yours after all. If she thinks you're using it as a playbook, so what? She's been questioning all your changes anyway. If she chooses to think that way, then it's up to her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.