Lucky, I hear ya'...I'll throw ya a frickin' bone. LOL!
But I hear you with regards to not getting any feed back = stripping for a blind man.
This is something you will have to make him see and understand. He needs to have the COURAGE to open his mouth and say something complimentary to you, about your body or how sexy you are. This is going to be required of him, so if there is any way to get him slowly in that direction, definitely work on it.