Secondly, I don't think you guys know how to communicate with each other. It seems to me that because you don't trust him you immediately think the worst.
So, when he says something innocent, you instantly jump into defense mode and jump down his throat.
He knows your pattern of behavior and is also defensive.
Time to change the dance.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
