Confessions from a former cheater...

[kat727]

Thanks for stopping by my thread. Got me teared up there! I think the best I can do is be their rock. Be stable and caring but firm when ncessary. they are in a precarious position, I admit and the girls may not show more issues for a while.

S16 is really talkative about it. My main focus at the moment is on S13. He doesn't talk about how he feels much. He knows that I am here for him and he talks about everyday stuff with ease. His grades have suffered and I am working on that bit right now. He still had a 3.0 with getting one D. So I have got his grades up by helping him and supporting him. Yes, he is doing this. He is at an age when he really needs his dad and in fact S16 was 13 1/2 when all of this started. So I know how they both will have issues. My Dad has always been a strong and contant factor in their lives and I believe this is helping them now.

Thanks for stopping by.

kat