I walked away

[dday101798]

Keeping an open mind: have you taken thought that he may just be terribly confused?

As a LBS myself, when the moment of realization hits of the things you've done wrong to drive your spouse to be the WAS, you find yourself questioning your own self worth. You can find all over these board LBS's beating the ever living tar out of themselves and blaming themselves FOR EVERYTHING. And when that part stops, the confusion sets in.

I'm not saying it's the case for you or your H, but jsut an option.

Good luck.