Concerning finances I would have an open talk to her, tell her every detail and then decide what to do, sure she does not want to damage you.
I would be leary on this as my STBX 'tells' me she's not out "damage" (can't use her exact word) me and yet everything she's done in court says otherwise. I know everyone sitch is different, but just to let you know from my experience, addressing finances only fueled her fire more.
I mean, we started off with nothing and made a decent life for our family and now it is all gone.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
