Look no one here is trying to pis s you off. We aren't mean without a reason we don't get into flame wars, or poke at you unless your a troll.
These guys have gone before you. Their advice is aimed at you not making the mistakes they did, we did.
However...
Are you the kid who listened to his parents about not touching the red hot burners on the stove? Or did your hand well up with blisters in a cool circular pattern like mine did?
Sometimes mistakes have to be made for lessons to be learned.
The REAL mistake is not learning from a mistake.
The real mistake is repeating it, hoping for different results, and then saying..."I knew, but..."
Your fragile, you don't have to prove your tough as nails to us here. No one here is making fun of you, no one here wants anything but the best for you. There is no reason to be defensive.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
