I've Come Full Circle 25: All grown up

[kat727]

Now you know what it is like for me. But they do keep talking and I have to keep those lines open no matter how much it hurts. They are getting it out. I would give anything for them not to be going through this, honestly I would but it wasn't up to me.

How I deal with it all now is. Ex was an only child and never even tried to understand sibling rivalry. He was a better parent than his Dad but that isn't saying much. He did work his tail off for us but once he knew he would have to pay me more with his second job, away that went. When faced with B, he easily could have picked up a second job to make up the difference or we could have worked it out somehow, but he chose B.

And now with the kids, he thinks he can ask for something and I will just give it because I am basically a good and kind person. Well, if he was actually trying to work on his relationship with just the kids, fine but he is working on forcing a family. He really is a heartless POS after all.

kat