Thanks gucci. I needed to be talked down off the ledge. Take things slow, I'm still not sure I want to take things at all so slow is good. And no more snooping, I promise. I think I've gotten it out of my system. I don't trust him and at this point I can't think of anything that would convince me to, so why bother?
Back to planning my fab new life in SF. It's something I enjoy thinking about and helps me feel like I'm moving forward. And off to buy a fab new pair of jeans!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g