Well, again, I'm going to be a rock for my kids, so if nothing else they can hold onto that.
Journaling:
I made a choice (non-DB) to reach out to W a little bit. She finished up her finals early Tuesday, and I always get the kids Tuesday night. I picked them up, and told her that we were going to the park, and downtown to walk around and get something to eat.
I said she was welcome to join us. She said that if I was picking up the kids, she was going to stay at the school and hang out with friends. I didn't respond.
So she texted me around 4:00, and simply said, "I am back in town." No reason really.
I asked her if we could swing by and pick up S6's baseball glove and ball - she responded, "I'll bring it and meet you at the park." Well, you could've knocked me over with a feather!
So, I made D8 finish her homework, so about an hour later, I texted that we were leaving, and she responded with, "Just pick up S6's glove" I had told kids she was going, so I asked her - and she said, "Don't know."
So we got there, and the apartment manager was standing talking to W, and all of a sudden she had nothing to say - but I figured that he knows OM, and has met him, etc, so W probably didn't want him to see her going anywhere with me. Who knows, don't care.
So, we left, and went to the park, and had a good time. We were going to go eat, and the kids had been begging for W to come, so I texted and invited her. She texted back, "No thanks."
Then, while we were eating, she texted all excited that she had passed her final exam.
So after eating, we were leaving to walk down and get a smoothie, and D8 begged and begged me to PLEASE ask Mommy to come and just have at least a smoothie with us.
So I did, and W responded, "I don't have any money." I offered to get her one as a congratulations, and she finally texted back, "No thanks".
So, I reached out, she rejected, I'm done. I could clearly see that she wanted to go.
So, as a last shot, I emailed her and basically said, 'Are we 100% done?"
I realize I'm way off the DBing chart, and it's OK. I'm going to be filing divorce Friday, and I want to make sure she rejects every offer. She has not responded, just texted me that she got a new job. I said, "OK".
Since I have a pretty darned good idea what her response will be - now it's done! Freedom is only two days away!
