Anyone required a polygraph

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Then he gets pissed and says "I said I would do it" but it was not very nicely said and then he goes on to yell at me "that stuff is a joke and you need to read all these articles that prove that its inaccurate and how they try to intimidate and manipulate the subject and that I'm just trying to humiliate him".

Ok here is the thing. I can't see much positive coming out of this. The most positive thing that can happen is he goes and passes and you believe the results 100%.

But there are a number of other more likely possibilites.


- He refuses to go and you quit the M due to this boundary but never know if he refused based on embarassment (as you have mentioned)

- He refuses to go and you back off the boundary.

- He goes and fails and has already given you back up showing how these tests are not accurate and you either now are afraid to enforce your boundary of leaving if it comes out positive for cheating but you are uncertain of the accuracy and now in a constant mind battle.

-He goes and passes but because of all the evidence you have now seen to show the inaccuracies of the test this result is now not good enough.

I am fairly certain it doesn't fall within the DB principles, that being said there is a lot on this site that doesn't make it all bad.

I just know that my husband lied compulsively and he would never have gone for the test, but if he did, I would still have questioned it either way it came out and it likely would not have been sufficient for me to leave because I needed certainty.