That is so helpful. I never thought of it as being mommy behavior. Well slap my ass and call me Sally.
Slipping the boob in his mouth... This is not easy. I flashed him my boob the other day and he just smiled and shook his head and kept busying about. Being a funny girl, my style is not to flash with dead-seriousness. I am more playful, humorous, smiley. Therefore, those types of displays let him off the hook and allow me to pretend as if I wasn't hoping for anything.
I'm doing the cha-cha for a country fan. Or, I'm doing a striptease for a blind person. Or, I'm doing a clown act for a cowboy. Something like that.
I need lessons and practice. And, dammit, I need some positive reinforcement from H. A little encouragement. Somethin'. Somebody throw me a bone here. (insert Dr Evil's voice)