My ex's SIL called me this morning & told me about ex & OW being in Laos, but said ex is very unhappy & they are moving back to the states in April. She did say the money was good but it’s terrible over there like being in a 3rd world country. Said he is working 12 hours, 7 days a week, only has time to eat & a little sleep. So, I'm pretty sure now that OW sent all those emails.
SIL also said that they are going to live with them in KY for about 3 months until he can find another job.
SIL told me that they stayed with them for 2 weeks before they left for Laos & said that OW was very needy & has my ex wrapped around her finger. She said that if she has a headache in the middle of the night, she will get my ex up to get her an aspirin. That’s not ex at all!! He likes to be the one in control! He never liked the woman to be in charge, he would always say when we were out with another couple & the woman made all the decision or the man would do exactly what the woman wanted, he would say, "you can tell who wears the pants in that family". His Mom controlled his dad but he hated it!! He said his dad should have left her years ago.
