Granted, I take responsibility for allowing it to happen, even though there were red flags.
Well of course you would, you take responsibility that isn't yours. : )
No it is a big deal, if it is different. It is actually huge.
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I am thinking that I really blew a chance with him by cutting off contact (keep re-reading BND's post about if I want to lose this man to go pitch black), but I have sat back and allowed myself to get hurt for far too long.
C,
A question for you.
You wanted advice, BND and I said similar things...
I'm just curious why you picked no contact?
For the record BTW you had no contact before and he came back around...so I don't think you have blown anything.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
