Wow. I have never locked a thread before. You'd think that I would have early on, and by now just have one of those sporadic ones going.
Odd that I have not settled into anything by now.
I do think that this thread will be used to gain acceptance of the situation. Though it was said that my XH was moving towards something, I really don't think it is me. My instinct tells me that he was just too scared to tell me that it was over, so he strung me along because it makes his life easiest when we are friendly. Granted, I take responsibility for allowing it to happen, even though there were red flags. I wanted to see the postives. I was really banking on those darn things.
